Getting serious about people watching

Yesterday, I reported about people watching at the airport and got many wonderful comments. Now, let's take this a step further. Let's move it from the entertainment or "passing time" stage to the professional education phase.

As we watch people in public - at the airport, shopping mall, ballgame, fast food court, or any forum where several people are gathered - let's turn it into a sales rehearsal opportunity.

This requires no interaction. We are strictly spectators - unless we return a smile or "hello" that is offered. Otherwise, we are purely observers and students.

We should focus on just one person at a time. Watch their gestures, posture, body movements. Observe their temperament. Look for any emotional displays or state of mind. If we get verbal clues, that's fine, but primarily focus on the non-verbal signs that can be observed.

Then we take what we are observing and determine how we might want to work with such a customer if we were face-to-face with them in our sales center.

What verbal clues did we notice or look for that gave us an indication of how we might want to open the conversation or proceed? Did we get any verbal clues? Were there conflicting clues? What did we learn?

By practicing and rehearsing scenarios with people when there is absolutely nothing at stake and nothing to be verbalized, we can practice, tweak, revise, and hone an approach for working with people that we feel are similar to the ones we have observed.

Then time permitting, we move onto a second person, and a third.

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People watching at the airport

People watching is entertaining. As a trained sociologist I can do it professionally as well.

You can people watch (or observe) anyplace - the beach, food court, fast food, downtown, the mall - basically any public place that gets several people visiting a day.

Today, the setting is the airport because that is where I am.

Ever notice the variety of attitudes and demeanor present among the slice of life you observe?

Some people are in a big hurry - maybe didn't plan enough time or are just always running late. Maybe they don't know how to behave any other way.

Some are angry - with themselves, their spouse, their kids, and everyone else around them. You can tell this by the shouting, the swearing, and grumpy attitude,

Some are very important. You can tell this by the way they try to move people out of their way or run them down as they pass through.

Some are calm and polite. They hold the door open or let you get in front of them in line.

Some are self absorbed - not looking where they are going, expecting others to look out for them, or taking up more than their share of space.

Some seem to have little self respect in the way they look and carry themselves. Others appear to be very disciplined.

These are just a few random observations, but these people are not unlike customers that we deal with or may face from time-to-time.

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For more information on my coaching and educational programs and services, sales tips, insights, or strategies, visit my website stevehoffacker.com or my other blog homesalesinsights.com. © Steve Hoffacker, 2009. All Rights Reserved.